1．记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的Remember what should be remembered, and forget what should be forgotten.Alterwhat is changeable, and accept what is mutable.
2．能冲刷一切的除了眼泪，就是时间，以时间来推移感情，时间越长，冲突越淡，仿佛不断稀释的茶Apart from tears, only time could wear everything away. While feeling is beingprocessed by time, conflicts would be reconciled as time goes by, just like a cup oftea that is being continuously diluted.
3．怨言是上天得至人类最大的供物，也是人类祷告中最真诚的部分Complaints are the greatest offerings that God obtains from human beings, as wellas the most faithful prayers human beings might utter to God.
Wisdom appears in contradiction to itself, which is a trick life plays onphilosophy of life.
5．世上的姑娘总以为自己是骄傲的公主（除了少数极丑和少数极聪明的姑娘例外）Girls always look on themselves as proud princesses, with the exception of asmall number of either extremely ugly or exceedingly smart ones.
6．如果敌人让你生气，那说明你还没有胜他的把握It can be inferred that you lack confidence in a victory over your rivals fromthe fact that you’re irritable against them.
7．如果朋友让你生气，那说明你仍然在意他的友情From that you would get angry with your friends, we can conclude you sitll careabout the friendship between you.
“ Something is out of our control, so we have to command ourselves.“ saidLinghu Chong, a known character in a Chinese novel about persons adept in martialarts(武侠小说？）. Who is, however,9．我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的，那些是错的，而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些。所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事，然后等待着老死。
Only till my natural death.could I tell which of what I have been doing is rightor wrong, so now I have to try to do well in everything, and then wait to die anatural death.
10．也许有些人很可恶，有些人很卑鄙。而当我设身为他想象的时候，我才知道：他比我还可怜。所以请原谅所有你见过的人，好人或者坏人Some may be wicked, and some may be despicable. Only when I put myself in theirposition did I know they are more miserable than I. So forgive all that you have met,no matter what kind of persons they are.
“You couldn’t see my tears cause I am in the water.“ Fish said to water.
“But I could feel your tears cause you are in me.“ Answered water.
Happiness is accompanied by sorrow, and it would turn sunny after rain as well.
If rain remains after rain and sorrow remains after sorrow, please take thosefarewells easy, and turn to smilingly look for yourself who is never to appear.
Like the outcome after an exam, death makes us aware of anything, That is, it’stoo late to take a tumble.
When you were born, you’re crying but lookers-on were smiling. When you arepassing away, you’re smiling but lookers-on are crying.
15．男人在结婚前觉得适合自己的女人很少，结婚后觉得适合自己的女人很多Man might think that few women fit him before his marriage, and contrarily whenthey get married.
16．于千万人之中，遇见你所遇见的人；于千万年之中，时间的无涯荒野里，没有早一步，也没有晚一步，刚巧赶上了Among thousands of people, you meet those you’ve met. Through thousands ofyears, with the boundlessness of time, you happen to meet them, neither earlier nor abit too late.
Everyone has his inherent ability( power or capacity?) which is easily concealedby habbits, blurred by time, and eroded by laziness( or inertia?).
18．人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己Be sure that you have never had any regrets in your life which only lasts for afew decades. Laugh or cry as you like, and it‘s meaningless to oppress yourself.
19．《和平年代》里的话：当幻想和现实面对时，总是很痛苦的。要么你被痛苦击倒，要么你把痛苦踩在脚下While our dream is confronted with the reality, you always feel painful. Justtrample on the pain, or you‘ll be beat down by it.
20．真正的爱情是不讲究热闹不讲究排场不讲究繁华更不讲究嚎头的A true love is what doesn‘t strive for busyness, for extravagance, for luxury,and moreover for hokum.
There is someone that is coming or passing away in your life around the clock, soyou may lose sight of those seen, and forget those remembered. There is gain and lossin your life, so you may catch sight of those unseen, and remember those forgotten.
Nevertheless, doesn‘t the unseen exist for sure? Will the remembered remain forever?
It‘s true that we have been leading a difficult life, for we need not only to beunder various external pressures, but also to be in the face of internalperplexities.You would be affected by the warmth of life if someone gives you aunderstanding look during your bitter struggle.Even a mere glance would make youmoved and inpired.
I wouldn‘t care success or failure, for I will only struggle ahead as long as Ihave been destined to the distance. I wouldn‘t care the difficulties around, forwhat I can leave on the earth is only their view of my back since I have beenmarching toward the horizontal.
24．后悔是一种耗费精神的情绪.后悔是比损失更大的损失,比错误更大的错误.所以不要后悔Pentinece is something that enervates our spirit, causing a greater loss thanloss itself and making a bigger mistake than mistake itself, so never regret.